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Why does it matter?

by IceCreamAssassin
Posted on Sun Mar 16, 2008 at 08:00:14 PM EST

I don't understand many things people put a stigma on.  I'm just trying to hash out some of my thoughts.

So I visited my mom today in the boonies.  And she gave me the usual threat of making me quit my art school education to come home to a state college if I got anything pierced or tatooed.  
And I wonder why does it matter?  It's no different than my purple hair.  It doesn't (barring an infection) affect my health, my grades, or my behavior.  Being an art student, it doesn't even affect how my teachers or fellow students think of me.  I'd be just another kid with their septum pierced.

I understand it's just a mom thing to worry about, but my cousin was giving me grief too over the fact I was wearing boots and a collar.  And I just don't understand why it matters to anyone else how I dress or what non-addictive needles I stick into my body.

And then "bad" words always bug me too.  No one would really care about them if we said them more.  There's nothing really wrong with them, unless they're used to insult someone.  Like "damn" and "shit" and all that, they're just words.  We give them power by making them "bad."

I'm just ranting.  I'm not very elequent but I figured I'd try writing something that actually meant something to me here.

Hi ICA,

You said: "I'd be just another kid with their septum pierced."

Maybe another question is, why do you want to do what everyone else around you is also doing?

The answer to that may help your mom and anyone else  understand why it matters.



by sewrockinggirl on Tue Mar 18, 2008 at 07:01:43 PM EST



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